Success with ESQ

ESQ is abbreviation from Emotional Spiritual Quotient. Which long run success is not only fixed by Intellectual but also Emotional and Spiritual. Emotional quotient is a capability how we feel someone's feeling to take action from what we will do. So, emotional quotient is capability feels someone's feeling. And spiritual quotient is our all mission because what we will do for God. We don't only live in this world but we live the next. We can see that may be formerly our many friends were success in school. But now, they are not success like as they were in school. Research appoints that Intellectual only max 20% and Emotional min 80% in determine success. But Intellectual is important, it's important how we make integration intellectual, emotional and spiritual capability. There is story how emotional can make someone become success. They are not only intellectual, although intellectual is very important. But can use emotional to reach successful. We know that Andrie Wongso is the best motivator in Indonesia. Now, he becomes success man. What did study at Junior High School? No, he didn't. He never finished Elementary School. He has high Emotional quotient and he has big motivation for success. And we know that why could Chinese of great be built which it is built more 100 years? Because of Chinese people have big motivation. Now, what is only Intellectual and Emotional enough? So we need Spiritual quotient.
So that, we can be successful in this world and the next. Actually for integrating intellectual, emotional and spiritual is easy. They are integration which we can do together without is done separated, for example: we do intellectual before, after finishing we do emotional and spiritual, in my opinion it's wrong. We must do together. Spiritual is not ritual. But how ritual can gives spirit for us to do something enthusiastically. Spiritual is motivation for successful in this world and the next, because we do something only for God, by God and from God. With that motivation, we never worry for successful. Our heart becomes calm. So we do all activities well. Smart person has high emotional and high spiritual. In my opinion, it all make us will successful. If leaders in Indonesia not only have high Intellectual but also have high Emotional and spiritual. In my opinion, there is no corruption, Indonesia become developed country. But when it can be reached, we need the best leader whose can give change not only promises.

Success is my right

People often ask that success is difficult for reached. So we must attempt hardly if we want to be able to reach it. Success is my right, it is always asked by Andrie Wongso at his books, training, and so on. I always listen to classical motivation story from CD audio book by Andrie Wongso everyday if there is free time. I am given big motivation for always attempt to reach my mission. There is no indeed success with out failure. Andrie wongso is success person; he never studied at junior high school, senior high school and university. He has high enthusiasm to knowledge, he studies it with autodidact. He has high motivation to keep going forward. He ever became actor in Taiwan in fact before he became actor there he is poor whose has big motivation to keep going forward.
So he is rich person now and motivator no. 1 in Indonesia. It’s so fantastic with his big motivation, he can change his life. Every people can be success and can reach their mission. I believe that God don’t create creature not success. But they make their self is not success, if there is a will there is away. Every people have opportunity become success. It’s important how we can get it. Don’t be afraid if we had been failure. I once listen to story one of classical motivation story that we must always attempt hardly to reach our dream. There is a story about adam khoo. He is smart and success, he has forth big businesses. He is from Singapore. But formerly he was stupid student. He always got bad value in his school. It’s clearly he was very stupid student, he ever drop out from his school. When he aged 13 year, he delivered to Ernest Wong, he study to use accelerate learning technology, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and whole Brain Learning.
After that learning, he changed drastic; he believed that he can. He had belief if other person can get A in study, he believed that he also can got A. He studied hardly, he had target, he had to get all value A in study. After it he wanted to continue senior high school in Victoria Junior College (the best senior high school in Singapore) after he finished his study at Victoria Junior College, he would continue at National Singapore of University. It’s fantastic all target can be reached. At NUS he was genius student there, he came in Talent Development Program. How stupid student became genius student. Because he had big belief, if he can gets it all. So we must belief with our self that we can do any thing for success. If there is a will there is away. If we attempt hardly we can reach our mission. Many hindrances which we must face but we must ready face it all.

Power of Writing

Writing is very important. By writing, writers may get something beneficial. Why not, writing we can transfer knowledge to other people. After someone have read book, He can write something from what he read and his experience. So it makes our memory strong. As according to Dr. Pannebaker the benefits of writing is: to make clear the though, to solve trauma, to help get and to memorize new information, to help solve problem, and last to help when we are forced to write. But why many friends don’t want to write if writing has many benefits. It is because is difficult, or we don’t have experience about writing. But if we know that writing is easy, don’t be afraid if we have many mistakes when writing. Study is a process.
Karen Armstrong, he is a big writer. Books of Karen Armstrong had earth-shaking his name A History of God (1993) and it was translate into many languages. But before he became a writer, he had a bad experience when he was still young. He ever lived in obey. He had lived there for seven years; he felt like to live in the prison. He experience a terrible life after he got out from obey, it’s caused by his diseases. When he was a permanent teacher, he had got out of his job as a teacher. He tried to kill him self. He tried to consult a doctor about his illness. After he recovered from his illness, but not 100 percent, he tried to embrace the world of spiritual which it had lost. After that he wrote a book, entitled, A History of God. Fantastic, His life changed quickly.
When we send our writing to news paper publisher example: Jawa pos, Kompas, Sindo, etc. We can get some money. We need to study journalistic before, because if we want to write well we have to write everyday. Make motivation that writing is good, and mach knowledge can be obtained. Actually there are many successful stories. In Indonesia still there less are good books, we import books from abroad. It’s good, but it’s better if we produce good books from Indonesian writers. When we produce good books which will be appropriate to international standard. This country will be known by other countries. I always think that in 2010 for developed countries and 2020 for developing country must face trade liberalization. In the globalization era, what must we do? We must develop our skill.